OPK turns positive but it’s only CD 10?

OK so we decided to stop TTC.  Tonight Jo felt crampy and since her period was longer than normal but not really “heavy” like normal she said she wanted to test just to be sure.  SO, we came home and we didn’t have any tests so in my infinite wisdom I said well, lets take an OPK cause sometimes pregnancy will show up on them too.  I was not expecting any line AT ALL.  For one, she is notorious for O’ing between days 14-17.  For two there is NO WAY she can be pregnant!  Lo and behold the second pink line though hmmmmm……  I honestly don’t know what to think.  There is a chance that she is O’ing early but what if….?  NO, it’s too crazy to think about….there is no possible way…..it’s just a fluke….isn’t it?

 

2 for 2

So as it turns out two women that I know asked me about getting pregnant.  I spent time going over BBT charts and advising on days to “do it” and I am proud to say 2 for 2.  Both women are now pregnant – one is 10 weeks and the other 6.  I don’t understand how I can help these other women get pregnant but when it comes to us I can’t.  WTF.  I am trying really hard to understand what I am doing wrong but I can’t seem to put a finger on it.  Everything seems right – but still no baby.  I am really happy for both ladies but in the back of my mind I am sad for me us. 

Today is CD 10 and we did an IVI today so you know what that means.  TWW.  I feel like my life here lately has become a slave to the tww.  Ovulation dictates what we can do and when – and then how we act after just in case she is preggo.  It is exhausting sometimes and can be a drain on the relationship too.  Luckily I am aware so tonight I am taking her out to a movie tonight   Probably the Sis.terhood of the Pants 2 but maybe Mam.a Mia?